The Primer is the cornerstone of The Royal Texan. It offers a carefully crafted guide—lessons learned, rules to live by, and narratives drawn from key moments in history that shape our character and conduct. Rooted in lifelong experience and a commitment to going above and beyond, it provides practical advice for making the most of the life we’ve been given.
More than a collection of ideas, this section exists to remind us that the old-fashioned ways of carrying oneself are far from antiquated. They remain vital touchstones for integrity, purpose, and grace in a modern world. Much can still be learned from the paths trodden by those before us—paths marked by quiet strength and enduring wisdom.
The Nobility of Aged Spirits
A Gentleman's Meditation There's a particular silence that descends when one enters a proper aging room. Not the artificial hush…
The Hidden Grace of Polo: What a Gentleman Learns from the Sport of Kings
In a world increasingly enamored with speed, spectacle, and shortcuts, polo remains a singular reminder of something older and finer:…
The Power of Subtle Presence
There’s a kind of influence that doesn’t demand attention—but it earns respect. It doesn’t chase spotlight or status, yet somehow…
“Appear Available, Never Be Available”
An Age Old Maxim for the Modern Gentleman There’s a quiet strength in the man who is always visible but…
Solitude as Strategy
“Silence reveals what noise obscures.” There is a profound difference between being alone and choosing solitude. One happens to you.…
Ritual is Resistance
“In a noisy age, the man with rhythm lives untouched.” There was a stretch of life when I felt like…
Heritage Is a Verb
“Legacy is not inheritance. It is cultivation.” My grandfather didn’t speak much. When he did, it was often with his…
Unveiling the Ambivert: Navigating the Spectrum of Personality
Personality is a multifaceted aspect of human nature that shapes our thoughts, feelings, and interactions. For a host of personal…
How Light Shapes Our Sleep and Health in the Modern World
In our fast-paced, technology-driven society, we often overlook a fundamental aspect of our existence: the interplay between light and our…
The Digital Dilemma: Navigating Screen Time in Early Childhood
A conversation about one of my recent articles turned into a conversation that created a follow-up I felt needed to…
Eton College Bans Cell Phones for Students
In an era where digital technology pervades nearly every aspect of daily life, some educators, institutions, and parents are reconsidering…
Proper Vehicle Maintenance: A Key To Saving Money And Avoiding Headaches
If you're a new (or new to you) car owner, congratulations! There's nothing quite like the pride and freedom of…
25 Rules for Boys
1. Never Shake A Man’s Hand Sitting Down Standing to shake someone's hand conveys respect, assertiveness, and a professional demeanor,…
Mastering the Art of Restful Sleep
I’ve been saying it for a while now and apparently I’m not the only one. For many of us, the…
8 Signs of Thriving in Today’s World
In a world immersed in the curated narratives of social media where people and companies only show “the best”, where…
Raising Boys
I had lunch with a couple of my mentors last week when I mentioned I needed to get back into…
The Lost Art of Driving Stick: A Guide to Manual Transmission Cars
Picture this: you, a winding road, and a trusty manual transmission car. A dynamic duo, if you will. There's nothing…
To the Class of 2023:
My niece turned 18 last week and is preparing to graduate High School in about six weeks. While the snarky…
Life’s Little Rules – Part Two
If 17 life's little rules from a decade ago weren’t enough for you, here are 20 more little rules to…
Life’s Little Rules – Part One
Rules. Whether we know it or not, we all live by them. Some may simply call them “guidelines”. How we…
9/11/01 – A Look Back
Where were you on September 11th? With this weekend marking the 10th anniversary of those attacks that question seems to…
One Percent
One percent. One measly little percent. I know that may not sound like much but what if it were compounded…